Tuesday, March 24, 2009

cracks in the love…

 

Low self esteem ----> Over Suspicion ---> Jealousy

Jealousy has been one of the huge factor for some sweet relationship that happen around us to break down.

According to one of the studies conducted in US, jealousy still happens even though we are living in so called “free thinking centuries”

And so on, jealousy happens caused by over suspicion and also by doubting your partner. When your partner return your messages/calls late or less, you will tend to think that they do not want to care about us anymore. Or else, for the even worst case, you might be thinking that they are hiding from us as well.

This are the early symptoms for worst jealousy case to happen. When suspicion and doubting happen, it makes us to question our partner, in a harsh way. With this, it creates a communication barrier that further lead to a communication breakdown.

  melt heart

When you know yourself tends to be jealous, or even tries to doubt every single action of your partner, try to think on the positive side of it. For example, if he/she returns your call late, maybe she is busy at work or she is in a bad mood. The reason of she doesn’t want to talk to you is so that it won’t influence your mood as well. FYI, you are the key support for your partner.

Jealousy happens when you feel that the your partner’s friend are more good looking, more capable, more rich, or even they spend more time with your partner rather than you are.

bullseye on heart

But, wait. Even though they are more capable than you are, or they posses the look of TOM CRUISE, or even LAM FOONG, try to boost your self esteem up. “Hey, even though he/she is more leng zai/leng lui than me, but, my gf/bf still loves me” Try to think this way, somehow, it help for me.

On the capability part, we could not judge one’s capability just by looking at what type of car that he/she or what kind of outfit that he/she was wearing. We can’t predict the future, who knows, somehow maybe you or even me might be the front cover for TIMES MAGAZINE.

How to kill jealousy/doubt/over suspicion

  • Always, i mean ALWAYS, think on the better side. When i say better side, don’t have such thinking “Haiz, she/he don’t want to reply my message, she/he sure flirt with other girl/guys de lar”
  • Whenever you wanted to get jealous about something, think back on all the sweet thing or even the sweet moments that both of you had created. It help to cool down your heart.
  • If step 2 can’t help, when you tend to get jealous, try to do something that you like, e.g. pool, racing, computer games and etc..etc..
  • This is important, don't jump to conclusion. You must know, when you jump to conclusion without understanding the other side, this means that you are accusing blindly.
  • If you simply jump to conclusion, even god also can’t give you a helping hand. It’s too late for sorry.

Sorry

That’s all..

by the way..drop in some comments for me..

cheers..

~ck~

Sunday, March 22, 2009

loving you~baby eve~

 

loving you..

is the best thing i can do…

loving you is easy just because you are beautiful..

creating and maintaining the love is the best thing that i can afford in my life…

loving you is the most beautiful thing that happen in my life…

 

without you…

my life would suck without you..

without you..

i was an empty shell without the inner part..

a lost soul..rendering and searching for the right owner…

without you..

i am totally lost…

days passed by like years..tears flow down like river…

 

since the day i be with you..

i forget the day when i was totally upset..

when i was apart from you..

i cant stop myself from missing all the moment of us being together..

some people say i am desperate to be with you..

yes…I ADMIT…

i need the time to be with you..

i need the sweet moments that we both create together..

in fact..

i hunger for it every time when we are not together..

 

remember when we went to the lookout point?

remember the why do we go there??

remember who did we went with there?

all of it was craved in my heart…

all of it was securely pasted in my brain…

some couples..or some people..

wishes so that whenever the time they spend with their love ones..

they hope the moment will stop and pass by as slow as possible..

for me..

it is very simple..

i don’t wish such an uphill task for the gods above..

coz..i know..

the sweet time and the time for both of us to be together..

is coming more and more…

its like snowflakes that are rolling down a snowy mountain..

it will gather more moss..

like us..

it will gather more love..happiness…

my wish is simple…

it does not require any help from the ones above..

it does not require help from my friend..

the only thing it requires is my determination and also my commitment..

i wanted to make her happy…

can you see how happy is she in the picture..

i want her to be like this every day..

every moment..

it does not matter whether did i with her..or not…

the only thing that really matters…

is her mood…

couples are like socks…

they come in pairs..

not 3..not 4..

just 2….

whether does it the same size..same color..or even same brand??

does it really matters…

what really matters is do you comfortable with it..

do you love it…

like the picture…

even 1 is with stripes..1 is pure black..

i love the combination..

like me and my baby…

her gift to me…

called the TAO FU ZAI…

i always wonder..

the 2 eyes look like a cctv to me..

maybe it was installed in my room..to check me out..

hehe…MAYBE….

this is her gift during Christmas..

sorry..really sorry..

i did not do my part..

i break your birthday wish…

but…

i appreciates all the thing you did for me on the special day..

although both of us din spend it together..

we found love in ourself..just for 2 of us..

lastly..

after all the things combined…

yah..

me had a lot of arguments..

we had a lot of misunderstands..

but..

we still remain to be in 1 piece..

i mean…

in 1 piece..

when 2 become 1…

shall we???

the end of this post..

i love you baby eve….

i really do..

sorry for the jealousy..

sorry for making you extra tired everyday even after work..

sorry for yelling..

sorry for quarrelling…

sorry for too demanding..

sorry for too intolerant..

sorry for too love you..

~ck~

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

when love turns to be too lovely…:)

 

Once upon a time,
Arcangel in the sky,
May it cover every night,
Once upon a time,
The angel loved me so,
It's a miracle in the snow, my heart won't be cold
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me what you know,
Something should be told
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me where you go,
I will brace behind your love.

you’re my angel by Loretta Chow

is like what written in the song itself…

it shows..who is my angel..

it’s my angel who introduce to me this song…

my angel give me life…

my angel give me love…

my angel keep me from the coldness around me…

my angel calm me down whenever i was frustrated…

now..

both of us are encountering different aspect of life..

she was committed to her full time work..

to earn some pocket money for now and future use…

myself..

trying my best to show myself in the studies..

although..

the time for both of us has decreased..

but…we would not be parted as easily like before..

just because…

she is my angel..

the only angel i need…

~ck~

Monday, March 9, 2009

mega blog update#2

life has been quite hectic since the second i step my feet into degree level 1 in apiit…

courses and modules are not as “expected” and the lecturers was not in their role as they should be….kinda crappy rite?

to begin with..let me update u all with my tremendous 3 time visit to PORT DICKSON…

the first 1..

 

this is the first 1..

which i went their with my college friends….7 of them to the exact…

exactly 2 weeks from it…

i went to PD again..the same beach..the same sea..

this time..

just 4 of us.me and 3 of my friends..

woke up around  7 and we swim till the sun reached just above our head…

some of us came back with serious sunburns on our back..

the latest visit…

also 2 weeks exact from the previous visit…

March 07,2009

this time…a little twist..

we went there around 5pm..

reach there around 7pm..

just because of numerous jams along the highway..

think of this…

why do ppl wan to stop..and look at a tilt bus at the emergency lane??

it causes a stretch for nearly 3 km…

wat the crap…

haiz..

oohh…

i forgot bout something…

i forget to update about the last day of UCFF0801{g2}

well..

here is some photo shoot session of our class during the last DAY..the last EXAM PAPER and the last LUNCH GATHERING for UCFF0801{G2}

oppss…

sorry ken

by the way…

regarding the last post i posted…

here is a proof for it..

haha..

lalala..

to get more pictures and also updates on our PD trip..

here is some blog links that have the picture of us…

Evelyn

Vonnie?

if not mistaken..there is just 2 blogs about it.

gtg now..

chaoz…

anyway…

going to have my holidays on 23rd of March…

regarding the trip??

still in the progress of planning..

chaoz..

cheers…

~ck~